Cowles Mountain across Lake Murray in neighboring San Diego, near La Mesa; photographed March 15, 2009.

Plan a night out

Date night ideas in La Mesa

4 kinds of independent spots for a night out.

From a glass of wine to a late dessert, these date ideas come from La Mesa’s independent restaurants, bars, galleries and venues. Check the events calendar for concerts and shows on the night you’re going out.

Day trips

Towns, parks and lakes within a short drive.

  • Black's Beach16 mi northwest
  • Border Field State Park17 mi south
  • San Diego Zoo Safari Park23 mi north
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Around town

Briercrest Park in La Mesa, CA
Briercrest ParkBnuuy · CC0
San Diego - Highway 94 towards downtown, La Mesa
28-san-diego-highway-94Alfred Twu · CC0
MacArthur Park, La Mesa
MacArthur ParkKurtM88 · CC BY-SA 3.0

Get a feel for the city

Questions

Where should I go on a date in La Mesa?

Start with Banbu Sushi Bar & Grill, J-K's Greek Cafe, Marathon Coffee; each section lists more local favorites.

What are fun date ideas in La Mesa?

Pair dinner with a show, a gallery or a game night, or plan a day trip. See this week’s events for concerts and live music.

Are these places independent?

Yes. This guide lists independent local businesses and leaves chains out.

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